Money Shark without effect

Seems like it is one of the Cupid Media group's sites and I have to pay member fee.I was asked to join recommended by my friend.But it totally wasted my money.I really want to find a wife there,however,the female members there just like other normal social network,I can not tell whether they are real or not.I feel like I was fooled by many young girls there.Seems i have to try my luck again and again to find my special someone.I lost my patient and i will quit.