I don't understand how people ever come to join such online dating site. The Russian girls profiles are shared by different dating sites. Probably the girl is dating with serveral men at the same time and you are one of them. I will tell you my real experience. I met a beautiful girl on Hot Russian Brides and sent her photoes to my friends. Out of my suprise, one friend told me he found the girl's profile on another Russian dating site. I registered on that site and wrote email to her but she said she don't know me at all. What a scam!